Do you feel stuck in your life doing the same things over and over and you want more? Do you have dreams that you want to achieve but feel it’s impossible? Well, the power for change is in your hands you just might need a bit of help to get you started. Feeling your dreams are unreachable is never a sign of weakness or defeat. Let’s look at it differently. It’s an invitation to pause, regroup and gain strength then work on moving forward.
So, is there are problem? And what is that problem? Do
you need to change direction? A great way to do find out is to begin
journaling. Start to write about the life you want. Think about your relationships,
money, the career you want. None of these are just dreams. They can be made a
reality with correct manifestation. However, you need to put in the work and
walk the journey. Be prepared to take the set-backs in their stride and just
keep going.
Stop comparing yourself to others
If you want to achieve your own goals you need to stop
putting focus on other people and where they are at in their life. You have
your own journey so make it your own. What is it that really makes you happy?
Write it down, reflect on it and then begin to follow that. You cannot walk
your friend or colleagues’ path as that is their dream, not yours. What are you
good at? What is your niche and how can you use it to drive your passion and
income? What do you love to do when you’re on your own. What takes up your
quiet hours and whittles your time away? Whatever it is, embrace it. Befriend
yourself. Learn to spend time on your own.
Communication is important
It’s important to learn to communicate clearly, even if at
first it is uncomfortable. If you cannot communicate your feelings, wants,
needs and concerns you are never going to have the relationships you want, or be
able to set the boundaries you need. Being a good communicator means expressing
these things without being crass, rude, or offensive. Sometimes this may need practice.
Start small
By starting small and taking one step at a time it will
make it easier to achieve your goals. For example, if running your own business
is your dream, that can be very overwhelming and you may not know where to start.
The first thing you can do is to secure the URL to your personal website, and start
to create this. Even if it is just the bare minimum, creating a landing page
with your photo and a brief bio can give you the confidence and motivation to
move forward. Put a nice professional headshot of yourself, and write a
personal mission statement. Have a few paragraphs that sum up your work
experience, sums up your goals and long-term ambitions and this will not only
bring clarity for you but communicate to others what you are passionate about.
Financial clarity
This is an important step. Make a spreadsheet of your
debts and expenses. List them all so you can see what is the biggest cost and
start paying it off. Open a savings account and save regularly. This can give
you several months of expenses covered to help you if there are any financial
hiccups.
Do you see how just these four things can already move you to a different mindset? Here at Stressfree Management (www.stressfreehealthmanagement.com)
we coach you how to
move forward and follow your dreams. Everything from sound advice on business
to teaching you how to manifest the right vibes to bring those goals into existence.
We teach you the steps to get unstuck from where you are now whether it be for
business, relationships, financial security, family issues and much more. Call or email us today to set up a time to get you started.
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